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JETTAone420
07-15-2007, 01:23 PM
would u go out with a girl that had a kid?
Agent Orange
07-15-2007, 01:29 PM
If everything else was chill, the kid isn't really that much of an issue. Depends on the kid's age and stuff tho too. And if she's hot, then I still don't care
oc-audica
07-15-2007, 01:29 PM
im not goin out with her per se - but we can hook up =)
mobbin6
07-15-2007, 01:34 PM
sure why not... but definately make sure there isn't gonna be any baby mama drama haha and make sure the father is not crazy

who knows, sometimes the woman having a baby might make her more mature and you might not have to deal with some of the crazy bullshit other guys do haha
Agent Orange
07-15-2007, 01:35 PM
sure why not... but definately make sure there isn't gonna be any baby mama drama haha and make sure the father is not crazy

who knows, sometimes the woman having a baby might make her more mature and you might not have to deal with some of the crazy bullshit other guys do haha

:tup:
FunkTron
07-15-2007, 01:35 PM
im not goin out with her per se - but we can hook up =)

:stupid:

sure why not... but definately make sure there isn't gonna be any baby mama drama haha and make sure the father is not crazy

who knows, sometimes the woman having a baby might make her more mature and you might not have to deal with some of the crazy bullshit other guys do haha

i know a guy in this situation exactly........he couldnt be happier......


then again......i know another guy about to enter this arena......and the bitch is........well.........just that........a crazy bitch........:confused::confused:
GTiGirl
07-15-2007, 05:33 PM
Ummm, hello; at least you know she puts out!!!

Just kidding, go for it. Single mothers need companionship too!
SoCal_S60R
07-15-2007, 05:40 PM
Started dating one 6 years ago... celebrated our 4th wedding anniversary 2 months ago. Our son together is 2 1/2. If its right, it works out just fine.
Agent Orange
07-15-2007, 07:54 PM
Ummm, hello; at least you know she puts out!!!

Just kidding, go for it. Single mothers need companionship too!

We were all thinking and nobody said it... :D
mike
07-15-2007, 09:21 PM
Hell no run away, this is a tip of a nasty iceberg. You go on a couple dates, next thing you know, your taking junior to daycare and payin the bills. Seriously, run away
oc-audica
07-15-2007, 09:24 PM
Hell no run away, this is a tip of a nasty iceberg. You go on a couple dates, next thing you know, your taking junior to daycare and payin the bills. Seriously, run away
thats old school dude. the mothers that have hung around lately hardly drop a line about their kid :cool:
jr_scheiBe
07-15-2007, 09:52 PM
it all depends on how old you are. When you hit 30, trying to find a woman that doesnt have kids gets harder and harder...

if she has a child, no big deal....BUT it better be a stable household.

:soapbox: $.02
GTi_01
07-15-2007, 09:53 PM
:worthless:worthless
Woody
07-15-2007, 09:54 PM
When I was 22 I met a 33 year old divorcee with two kids. 2 1/2 years later we were married. That was 11 years ago next month. I couldn't be happier. The fact that she has a child shouldn't be a big deal, if she is a good person then I say go for it.
fcastle
07-16-2007, 02:48 PM
The fact that she has a child shouldn't be a big deal, if she is a good person then I say go for it.

I'd say that about sums it up. But do beware of the following:

Crazy ex
Mother's looking for "Instant Family: Just add Dad!"
MikekiM
07-16-2007, 02:50 PM
If you're not ready to be a full fledged dad, run.
The last thing her kid needs is a different guy showing up everyday.
SUNNYMK4
07-16-2007, 03:38 PM
If you're not ready to be a full fledged dad, run.
The last thing her kid needs is a different guy showing up everyday.


i agree, that pussy is tag'd up for life by another dude. :tdown:
jwill'sMK4
07-16-2007, 03:40 PM
I'd say that about sums it up. But do beware of the following:

Crazy ex
Mother's looking for "Instant Family: Just add Dad!"


lmao "just add dad"
str8 euro
07-16-2007, 04:48 PM
ted im in that situation and i couldn't be happier her kids are great and there not a problem at all. give it a chance thats all u can do. alot of people are gonna say your crazy for dating a women with kids but if shes cool and cares about you it's not really about the kids or what other people think it's really about you and her , the kid is an added bonus and plus your not the dad be a friend to the kid and you will see how much. Trust me I have 3 and 1/2 years experience in this situation and trust me homie pussy is pussy and it feels the same as a woman that don't have kids!!
SoCal_S60R
07-16-2007, 05:17 PM
To quote the Grand Ruler:

"Another girl I met, her experience vast because
Most girls wit kids done been hit in they ass before..."
MrFast4Ward
07-16-2007, 06:28 PM
Negative!!!
GTi_01
07-16-2007, 08:25 PM
:worthless
mike
07-17-2007, 01:53 PM
maybe I would hit it if she was a MILF and the little crumb cruncher was living with daddy.
MrFast4Ward
07-17-2007, 03:07 PM
You have to remember that her primary concern is her child. That said, finding a daddy might be a subconscious motivator to move things along faster and try to get you hooked. I truly recommend not getting involved in a situation like this where you are likely to end up unhappy. You are young and should try to go out with single women who are not in any way attached to another man (baby daddy). That's my $0.02. If you need more advice, listen to the professor. (http://www.blowmeuptom.com/)
SoCal_S60R
07-17-2007, 03:45 PM
C'mon Enrique...definitely a case-by-case scenario.

I started dating my current wife when her son was 7. He didn't look at me as a replacement though...we have a good understanding and he's almost 13 now. But...he opted to live with his Dad...so visits at our house are just good times.

If I had any real advice to give....it would be to have the conversation with the girl early...see what her expectations are...find out about the baby-daddy and what role he's gonna play...see if he's a felon and will try to kill you...cover your ass...and do what you think is best. Could be the best thing you'll ever find....and could be the worst. I guess I just got lucky.
MrFast4Ward
07-17-2007, 03:48 PM
yeah bro, but you were obviously in a position to settle down with her. I am almost positive that at 22 years old, he doesn't want to settle down with anyone yet.
SoCal_S60R
07-17-2007, 03:57 PM
yeah bro, but you were obviously in a position to settle down with her. I am almost positive that at 22 years old, he doesn't want to settle down with anyone yet.

This is true...we were both in our later 20's...so many factors to consider. I'm going to stick with my advice though. Wouldn't rule it out completely without knowing for sure.